8 Toxic Friend Types To Avoid
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Friends are for life and make your life complete. We all have many friends in life but some turn out to be toxic. When people say “toxic friend”, they actually mean by that type of a friend who is good at embarrassing you in front of the crowd to gain attention or who is a betrayer. Here are some toxic friends that you should eliminate from your life:
1. The Hater
A friend who is a hater can never be satisfied. They always tend to make negative opinions about situations. Like they never like the attire that you choose or the people you talk to are not good for you. They are very good at making things seem bad and blocking your positive vibes. They never get happy with your choices. They feel jealous at times and will never compliment you for your good choice even if they loved it.
Kawan pembenci yang tidak pernah puas hati dan selalu cenderung memberi pendapat negatif dalam setiap pilihan anda dan sentiasa merasa cemburu dengan anda. Dan mereka tidak pernah memberi pujian bila anda membuat pilihan yang baik.
2. The Leech
We usually have that one friend who is constant at borrowing money or your stuff and depends upon you. This kind of friend should definitely be avoided. If a friend takes everything from you and never returns then the friendship becomes one sided and it is of no use to keep such a friend in the long run as in the end you will be the ultimate loser.
Kawan yang menjadikan anda sebagai ATM mesinnya....berjaga2
3. The Faultfinder
Such type of friends do nothing but find faults in you and others. They are always keen of everything that you do or say. If you want to avoid such friends you can say something in a joking manner like “Let’s see if you can last an hour without saying anything negative.” However if you are not comfortable with such friends and are continuously subduing your self respect then its better to keep away from such friends or to eliminate them.
Mr perfect yang mereka nampak salah orang saja....
4. The Manipulator
The manipulator one is often the stealthy one. Such friends are very good at manipulating things and have usually got too many things to mention. It’s better to keep away from such friends as they can manipulate things according to their convenience.
5. The backstabber
Those who backstab are very good at your face. They can make you enjoy their company and have fun. with them. You like spending time with them and it becomes so confusing to recognize the backstabbers. But when you hear something negative from others it gets depressive. Give these friends chances to explain themselves but stay bold enough to distant yourself from such friends.
6. The one who finishes your sentences
This is a friend who knows you well and can read your mind. They are so interested in your conversations that before you speak your story, they intrude in between and finish off the story even when they have never heard it. They are good at hijacking the conversations. They love to talk and won’t let you talk. More than a friend they need audience who can just listen to them.
Smile - memang ada macam ni....mula pelik mengapa setiap kali nak buka mulut mesti orang tu tukar topik atau pretend macam tak dengar. Bila banyak kali terus diam ....no more story to share better sebenarnya.
7. The Comparison maker
These friends always compare their lives with yours. Such frenemies get jealous of what you have and possess. They never get happy with your success and always tend to create hurdles in your path of success. Your accomplishments will be shot down by them with “no big deal” attitude. Such friends try to keep you down in every aspect of life whether it is about friendship or career.
8. The Gossip Queen
Generally girls tend to gossip around. Every time you meet her she never fails to talk about other people. You can never share your personal stuff with such friends as they are good at disclosing stuff to others like they disclose the personal stuff of others in front of you. The stuff they talk about is usually complaining or disrespectful to others. They can even blackmail you for your stories that you have shared. It is better to detox your life with such a toxic friend to stay happy.
Type ni banyak sangat memang ada sekeliling kita....klu ada dengan mereka kita up to date kononnya tapi sebenarnya mereka umpama api dalam sekam yang menjadi pembunuh dalam diam dengan menyampaikan cerita2 orang lain.
Sources:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Toxic%20Friend
http://fabulously40.com/post/id/7-toxic-friend-types-to-avoid-11007
http://www.lovepanky.com/entertainment/gossip/toxic-friends-10-types-of-friends
http://whatthewoop.com/2013/10/01/toxic-friendships-7-types-of-frenemies/
http://www.yourtango.com/201167022/12-types-friends-you-should-break
http://goodlifezen.com/are-your-friends-true-or-toxic-find-out-now/
http://www.wqmx.com/wynn-wilson/heard-on-the-show/614-7-toxic-friends-your-should-lose
http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Toxic-Friends-Unhealthy-Relationships/5#ixzz2nvl3Houw
Hari ini terpandang post seorang teman yang aku kenali semasa belajar di utara tanah air...8 Toxic Friend Types To Avoid..sound interesting
Pass ten year dulu aku dan seorang sahabat pernah bersembang pasal hal ini bila secara tiba2 kami bertemu dengan kawan berpesonaliti PELIK (toxic) yang mana banyak menghuru-harakan hidup dengan pelbagai tingkah mereka. Sakit dan pedih sebab sebelum ini tidak pernah berjumpa dengan personaliti sedemikian terasa mcm diracuni....inilah ujian Allah SWT untuk menjadikan kita lebih kuat dan tabah dan juga untuk elakkan kita dari menjadi toxic kepada yang lain pula.
Friends are for life and make your life complete. We all have many friends in life but some turn out to be toxic. When people say “toxic friend”, they actually mean by that type of a friend who is good at embarrassing you in front of the crowd to gain attention or who is a betrayer. Here are some toxic friends that you should eliminate from your life:
1. The Hater
A friend who is a hater can never be satisfied. They always tend to make negative opinions about situations. Like they never like the attire that you choose or the people you talk to are not good for you. They are very good at making things seem bad and blocking your positive vibes. They never get happy with your choices. They feel jealous at times and will never compliment you for your good choice even if they loved it.
Kawan pembenci yang tidak pernah puas hati dan selalu cenderung memberi pendapat negatif dalam setiap pilihan anda dan sentiasa merasa cemburu dengan anda. Dan mereka tidak pernah memberi pujian bila anda membuat pilihan yang baik.
2. The Leech
We usually have that one friend who is constant at borrowing money or your stuff and depends upon you. This kind of friend should definitely be avoided. If a friend takes everything from you and never returns then the friendship becomes one sided and it is of no use to keep such a friend in the long run as in the end you will be the ultimate loser.
Kawan yang menjadikan anda sebagai ATM mesinnya....berjaga2
3. The Faultfinder
Such type of friends do nothing but find faults in you and others. They are always keen of everything that you do or say. If you want to avoid such friends you can say something in a joking manner like “Let’s see if you can last an hour without saying anything negative.” However if you are not comfortable with such friends and are continuously subduing your self respect then its better to keep away from such friends or to eliminate them.
Mr perfect yang mereka nampak salah orang saja....
4. The Manipulator
The manipulator one is often the stealthy one. Such friends are very good at manipulating things and have usually got too many things to mention. It’s better to keep away from such friends as they can manipulate things according to their convenience.
5. The backstabber
Those who backstab are very good at your face. They can make you enjoy their company and have fun. with them. You like spending time with them and it becomes so confusing to recognize the backstabbers. But when you hear something negative from others it gets depressive. Give these friends chances to explain themselves but stay bold enough to distant yourself from such friends.
6. The one who finishes your sentences
This is a friend who knows you well and can read your mind. They are so interested in your conversations that before you speak your story, they intrude in between and finish off the story even when they have never heard it. They are good at hijacking the conversations. They love to talk and won’t let you talk. More than a friend they need audience who can just listen to them.
Smile - memang ada macam ni....mula pelik mengapa setiap kali nak buka mulut mesti orang tu tukar topik atau pretend macam tak dengar. Bila banyak kali terus diam ....no more story to share better sebenarnya.
7. The Comparison maker
These friends always compare their lives with yours. Such frenemies get jealous of what you have and possess. They never get happy with your success and always tend to create hurdles in your path of success. Your accomplishments will be shot down by them with “no big deal” attitude. Such friends try to keep you down in every aspect of life whether it is about friendship or career.
8. The Gossip Queen
Generally girls tend to gossip around. Every time you meet her she never fails to talk about other people. You can never share your personal stuff with such friends as they are good at disclosing stuff to others like they disclose the personal stuff of others in front of you. The stuff they talk about is usually complaining or disrespectful to others. They can even blackmail you for your stories that you have shared. It is better to detox your life with such a toxic friend to stay happy.
Type ni banyak sangat memang ada sekeliling kita....klu ada dengan mereka kita up to date kononnya tapi sebenarnya mereka umpama api dalam sekam yang menjadi pembunuh dalam diam dengan menyampaikan cerita2 orang lain.
Sources:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Toxic%20Friend
http://fabulously40.com/post/id/7-toxic-friend-types-to-avoid-11007
http://www.lovepanky.com/entertainment/gossip/toxic-friends-10-types-of-friends
http://whatthewoop.com/2013/10/01/toxic-friendships-7-types-of-frenemies/
http://www.yourtango.com/201167022/12-types-friends-you-should-break
http://goodlifezen.com/are-your-friends-true-or-toxic-find-out-now/
http://www.wqmx.com/wynn-wilson/heard-on-the-show/614-7-toxic-friends-your-should-lose
http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Toxic-Friends-Unhealthy-Relationships/5#ixzz2nvl3Houw
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